Some Things You Shouldn’t Be Doing in a Relationship

Things You Shouldn’t Be Doing in a Relationship

Things you shouldn’t be doing in a relationship

1. Honesty, they say is the best policy BUT being too honest just ruin everything sometimes. So if you want to make your relationship long lasting, learn when to say and not to say things that are irrelevant; things that he doesn’t have to know that you know will be interpreted to something else is better untold.

2. Being Dependent is a big no-no in any relationship. It’s funny how people who were so independent suddenly chooses to be dependent as soon as they find someone who promises them all the good things in the world. But after a few months, where are the promises? The promises are gone and your job is gone too…and everything is gone…

3. Talk badly about his/her family. No matter how you hate his/her family…you just don’t talk about it to your partner. You know why? If he/she does talks about your family, how would you feel? Terrible, right? And, this will automatically lead to a long and lasting fighting if it doesn’t end the relationship right away. So, keep your mouth  shut and if you can’t afford to say something good about them, don’t say anything at all

4. Give a clue that you are desperate to get married. Guys hate it when they start to feel oblige to do something they are not sure of…(just yet). SO don’t start saying you are so glad you found him, that he is the answer to your prayer because you feel he’s going to marry you soon. This is insane and don’t be surprised if by the next day, you will hear nothing from him…

5.  Intentionally hurting his ego. Sometimes, it is the ego that is only left for man to still go on…and once you mess with it, forget about your relationship with this man because I am telling you, he will remember this forever.

6. Argue. You know you are right and you know he is wrong and he thinks the other way around so you argue endless times. It is not cute, it is not going to make the relationship last longer. It will come to a point wherein you will find him talking about it with his friends….and you would feel so devastated about it. So instead of arguing, keep quiet, because one day, he’ll realize you are right and he’ll even be the one confessing about it. So, why be in a hurry to be right?

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